Quick Recap...Thanksgiving, Birthday, Christmas, New Years...lots happening!

I know I've mentioned it many times...but our church family is a huge support. One of my friends who works in the CLG office called me after she heard about David's job to offer us a Thanksgiving basket. I've learned over the past three years to let go of pride and take any help that's offered...so I said "Yes please!" lol So that Saturday some members dropped off not only all the fixings for a Thanksgiving dinner, but a ton of groceries as well. I just about cried!!! I mean, we are still eating the peanut butter from those boxes. It was amazing and such a blessing! 

The kids couldn't believe how generous it was. It was such a gift and really, really helped!

Even though David had gotten the job offer, there were still a bunch of hoops to jump through before actually starting. I think he finally started work either the first or second week of December. In the meantime, we were wondering what our Thanksgiving would be like...it was going to be our first one without any other family...what with Dad and Rachel down in Alabama for the Pow Wow. Sarah to the rescue again! :) She invited us over to celebrate...her mother-in-law was doing most of the cooking...I only needed to bring some dessert and drink ideas. I decided to make a recipe I'd found on, where else, Pinterest. Carmelized Apple Spice Cake with Brie Icing and Sugared Pecans. Can you say yum? I also brought a fresh cranberry compote, pumpkin pies, and some apple cider to make some bourbon cocktails. Delicious!

Caramelized Apple Spice Cake with Brie Icing & Sugared Pecans

After watching the Manchester Road Race (a really fun race with thousands of runners every Thanksgiving that passes near our house. A lot of runners wear costumes and it's a fun, crazy atmosphere), we stopped by our neighbor's open house for some snacks and drinks.

Thor...Braveheart

male Leia, minions!!!

Kim and her oldest participated...jealous!!! :) We'll have to do it next year! 

Angry birds

These are just few of the crazy costumes. It's a really fun race...there was even a dude with sound system set up DJing on our block...people watching hand some of the runners beers...it's really funny. 

After that we headed over to Sarah's. We had a lovely time relaxing with Sarah, Dave and the boys, and his parents. All the food was delicious...even had some grilled prime rib...and the juiciest turkey. We watched a little football...drank some (spiked) eggnog, bourbon apple cider cocktails (yum!) and just visited. So great to just be with friends and relax. It's the first time I haven't cooked for Thanksgiving in probably a decade...lol. The kids played games and even had a dance contest. Sarah and I even dropped in on Kim to see how her Thanksgiving was going. ;) She was (after running in the race, mind you) cooking for over 25 people...needless to say, that was stressful! But she was happy to see us...I think ;) All in all, a wonderful day...thanks for having us Dave and Sarah!!!

Of course, with the turkey and fixings the church gave us, I did wind up making a turkey dinner for us later on that week...but there's a big stress difference is cooking for a regular meal and for Thanksgiving...lol

We put up the tree that weekend, as is our tradition. I was worried that I'd have to get a new tree...our basement had flooded earlier in the year, and I wasn't sure how our tree had held it...but it was perfect. I absolutely love Christmas time!!! My favorite time of the year (other than the cold ;). I was super ready to have some joy in the house!

I specifically remembering buying my mom a little evergreen reindeer exactly like this one when I was little. I was super excited to find one at the thrift store the other day! Brought back memories!

love this pic!

My ornament mobile...and yes, I hang ornaments on my chandelier, don't you?

Where's baby Jesus? 

Decorating is hard work!

December was jam packed! David started his new job. He didn't get his work vehicle for about a week, so that was a bit tricky working out transportation for him plus the kids in school, etc. We were able to start catching up on some bills and things seemed to be leveling off a bit.  David knew when he started that there was a lot of work in NJ right now...not his favorite place, but what can ya do. Parent-teacher conferences...all the kids are doing great! Yay! What with all the little things going on, all of a sudden it was Christmas and I wasn't ready!!! I did manage to make cookies for our cookie exchange at MOPS...which was then cancelled because it was a snow day...go figure. Yes, the cold, wintry, snowy weather started setting in...boooo! 

One of the most beautiful sunsets I've seen! 

But really, other than that, I couldn't believe it was Christmas...not to mention it was Red One's birthday on the 23rd! So super not ready...I was almost wondering if we'd have to hold off on Christmas (David's paycheck hit a bank issue...yuck!!! but it finally made it in a few days before). Let me just tell you, Amazon Prime is a lifesaver! that two day free shipping came in handy!!! haha...anyways, my friend Megan from church said she had something to drop off for me. She stopped by that Saturday with presents for all the kids, lasagna and a bunch of Christmas goodies! Unbelievable!!! and perfect...thank you so much! Again, just goes to show that God is always watching out for us...and blessing us with the people around us!

The girls were in the children's choir at CLG for the Christmas celebration the Sunday before Christmas. Red One had a speaking part and Red Two had a solo. They did awesome!

Red One turned 12 this year. I still can't believe it...she's huge and thinks she's bigger, stronger, and older than she is...lol...I can't take it! Even though it's her turn for a friend birthday party, we always do that in January. December is just too busy! But still, we thought it would be fun to go to Nomads (an indoor adventure/arcade place) for the day. We bought passes for the kiddos and let them loose.

As you can tell...they only had a little fun ;) They played laser tag for the first time, rock climbing, bumper cars, spinning teacups, bounce house...and playground. It was a blast! We headed home so I could make dinner (well, actually heat up the lasagna that Megan made)...but I needed to run to the store for ingredients for the cheesy artichoke bread Red One wanted to try. While I was there, Dad called me, said Rachel had been in a car wreck in Rhode Island (heading home for Red One's birthday) and that she was at the hospital. He didn't know how she was at all, but he had to go. We weren't quite sure what to do...but we went ahead and celebrated Red One's birthday, cake and presents, etc. If it was serious, then I was probably gonna head there later that night...but we didn't know her status at that time...and it was a couple hours away. While the kids were sad Rachel wasn't there...they prayed for her...but we had fun anyways. Red One's been finally getting into more girly stuff like clothes and hair, etc...I thought a fun gift would be a gift certificate for a pedicure. She got some other cool stuff too...Daddy even gave her a paintball mask. He's decided to get the older two into paintball...so they knew their present this Christmas would be paintball guns.

my beautiful girl

Chocolate Peppermint Cheesecake Cake

Dad was keeping me posted...around 11 that night he said they were releasing Rachel so they were heading back. Thank the Lord it wasn't serious...scary for sure, but just a bunch of bruises and scrapes. Could have been so much worse.

Next day was Christmas Eve...thankfully all the presents arrived on time ;) Red One opened her birthday presents from Papa and Rachel. Rachel got her a bunch of gift cards to go shopping (now that she like that sort of thing...lol) and Papa got her her very own Kindle! She was thrilled! Our tradition for Christmas Eve is to keep it simple...we usually just have a bunch of appetizer type snacks...we hang out, open some presents, etc. David couldn't wait till Christmas Day to give them their paintball gun...lol

Our Christmas mornings are a little hectic...the kids usually wake up before us and open their stockings...then we head to Christmas mass. After that we have some sort of nice breakfast, then head to the living room for presents. Before we actually open them, we read the Christmas story out of the Bible (this year Red One read it for us), and then we open presents. After presents the kids usually play for a bit, then we have Christmas dinner (ham and whatever other fixings...gotta have ham so you can use the bone for black eyed peas on New Years ;) and then we sing Happy Birthday to Jesus and have birthday cake.

Freckles was ready!

I loved how my hair came out! ;)

Boys and pointy things

That's how you play after a long day!

Jesus' birthday cake; Eggnog Cake with Swiss Meringue Icing...so good!

Surprise!

Red One played some Christmas songs for us on her viola.

Unfortunately Rachel had some business to take care of out of state, so she was unable to be with us on Christmas. We did presents with her when she came back though.

I hadn't had a chance to hang out with my girl friends in a while, so I never said yes so quickly when Sarah asked me if I wanted to go see American Hustle. lol...it's been a bit of an emotional up and down then past several weeks...and the same for her. Kim was free, so we headed out for drinks before hand. It's so great to have such wonderful, caring, loyal friends I can always count on...and I know they feel the same. It's been a tough year for Sarah and Dave as well...all I can say is that cancer sucks! The movie was really good too...all the actors were fantastic and the story was pretty entertaining.

The last few years, Kim, Torrey and the kids come over and hang out for a bit on New Year's Eve...and since they're only a couple houses down, they can walk over...wink, wink ;) Anyways, they came over again this year. We had so much fun!!! I finally got David to play board games (have I mentioned he hates them?) and we played my favorite, Taboo!!! It was hilarious!!! I seriously haven't played it in like 10 years at least...but it was a fun as I remembered. The kids watched a movie and played...fun times!

Kim had been wanting to have a party, but we weren't able to work out everyone's schedules before Christmas, so we did it after New Year's. She had a lamb leg she wanted me to cook...I was excited, I actually had a recipe I wanted to try out. It worked out...the lamb came out super delicious! even if it did take longer than expected and make us late! lol All the food was so good! Kim even had cookies for the kids to decorate...perfect night out! We played another fun game, I forget the name, maybe Guess Who? It was pretty funny. Thanks for having us Kim!

Torrey breaking out the air guitar! bwahahaha

 Laughter and silliness with friends, what could be better?

And with that, I do believe we are pretty much caught up...:) I hope all of your Christmases were blessed and your New Year will be filled with joy and hope!

Blessings!

Yikes! I started this post almost two months ago and never posted it...I'll finish it and then do a second one to catch up.

This week started off an a bit of a low note, as I'm sure you all could tell...;) Sarah dropped off the car for us, which made everything a little easier. Rachel was trying to work out everything from having her purse stolen...such a headache. She was supposed to head down to Alabama to meet up with Dad for Thanksgiving...but no renting a car or flying without a license. Plus, with all the moving hoopla, it was no easy task to find her birth certificate or social security card. Thankfully, the SSN card showed up and she was able to get her drivers license on Friday...so that got sorted out!

David headed to see his general practitioner about the pain...just to see what he thought about seeing a rheumatologist, etc. The doctor is still stumped...doesn't think it's anything that would fall under a rheumatologist's purview...but did give him a recommendation for one, as well as a couple of supplement suggestions...we just need to run them past David's oncologist, make sure there's no problem with taking them. He also upped his pain meds in the meantime. The pain's no better, but at least we're working on trying to figure it out. 

One of the nice things about David being home is time with the kids is a little more relaxed. The kids and I all love board games...David not so much. We managed to guilt him into playing with us one night...Apples to Apples. At first he thought it was the most ridiculous thing ever, especially with how arbitrary the kid's decisions were...but it got a lot funnier as we went along. We had a great time!

David had been in contact with the company he used to work for in Colorado. They are in Connecticut as well...and he's heard they needed test techs. The initial conversation with the owner was very positive...and he talked to the local manager as well. One of the possible issues was that David is a member of IBEW 103, in Boston...as his old company is located nearby. This company is not a signatory there however, they are working with the CT locals...which are different rates, etc. We were unsure how that would work...the unions typically don't like members switching locals. Thankfully David was in contact with one of his friends at his old work who knew all the ins and outs. Basically, the best thing would be to sign in to the CT locals as a traveler from 103. The only downside would be the paycut...which while not great, heck, we'd live with it! The best scenario would be if the new company would make up the difference...but we weren't sure if they'd go for that.

Anyways...they asked him to come in for a meeting with the local manager on Thursday morning. You can bet that I was praying my head off! We were hopeful...but still...you never know. And then you have to wonder...do you bring up all the brain stuff...especially since that didn't seem to go over so well at his last company. People can get so freaked out by cancer...and then you throw in the brain and they just don't know what to do with that. But it's gonna come out anyways if he did get the job...what to do! David was gone a couple of hours...he called me to let me know he was on his way back. The meeting went well...the manager (even though the owner had vouched for David's expertise....remember, he worked for them for a couple of years before we moved to CT) did his job and asked a lot of technical questions...showed him a scheme to see if he could read it (David aced that...write-ups are a bit of a specialty! and, he's super smart!)...it seemed to go well. They told David they'd let him know by the end of the week...which would be the next day. David even told them all about the cancer/surgeries. He knew it would come out at some point...might as well be upfront about it. I was a bit more tentative...even though it's illegal to discriminate because of that...it would be easy enough to find a different reason not to hire him. I had so many people praying that day though. Thanks to all of you who joined in!!!

David mentioned that this guy (he'd been talking to two different local guys) hadn't heard about the whole sign-in on the travelers list...and certainly hadn't heard about the idea of paying the difference. He was thinking he probably got the job, but that it would be at the CT rate...which would be a significant pay cut. But, again, a paycheck is a paycheck...we would be happy to get the job! Sarah asked if I'd go with her to see Hunger Games: Catching Fire with her in the morning. I was happy to say yes! ;) We were hoping Kim could make it too...but she had plans :(

Because David had the car for the interview, I missed BSF...but he made it back in time for me to attend the fellowship time afterwards. One of the ladies in my group opened her home to us so we could visit with each other and eat lunch. I was happy to be able to attend...gave me a chance to get to know them a little better.

I told David when I headed off to watch the movie on Friday that if he heard anything, he'd better let me know right away!!! Sarah had to take care of an emergency at work...even though she had the week off :( I felt bad she had to deal with that stress...but then we got to the theater. We were so pumped!!! Sometimes we try to make the midnight showings...but the morning was perfect...wasn't too crowded or anything. There were a ton of previews! Which I don't mind...I actually like previews, but wow, it was a lot! Then the movie started...and man, the momentum never let up! The movie was seriously good...I loved the first one...but this one was even better! Everything was fleshed out more, the characters developed more, the costumes were insane! Just wonderful stuff! and of course, Jennifer Lawrence was amazing as always!

Then, about an hour into the movie, my phone lights up. I checked it (totally ignoring all the commercials before the movie that told you not to text...haha, I'm so bad...I did try to hide the light at least ;) and there was a text from David... "I got the job." Not only that, they're paying him the Boston rate!!! I was seriously so excited!!! I had a hard time concentrating on the movie...I showed Sarah, she was thrilled! She was so happy for us...was really, really hoping we wouldn't have to move either...that would have been dreadful.

It was truly a wonderful day, as you might imagine!